DOMINATING GALFRIEND

I bumped into my ex-colleague Chan, and was exchanging
news and catching up with one another, when he informed
me that he is in a dilemma with regard to his relationship with
Tracy, his galfren of 2 years. I had met Tracy last year at
Chan's birthday party.

She is a dominating, aggressive and a great achiever too.
She holds an MBA, and works as an insurance adjuster,
previously a banker.

Smart gal, good talker, is the limelight and socialized well.
Chan further added that he noticed she can talk on any topic
under the sun. Some people just got this gift of the gab.

For instance, first time to his parents' house, not timid and shy
more like very liberal, speak freely and call out to every uncle
and auntie, making small talks to his other relatives who are
practically strangers to her.

Chan said OMG.......... she doesnt give me any space to breathe.
Last Christmas, they went to Hongkong with some friends.
She takes up all the attention, no room for him to talk to others ,
coz before he can speak up.... all being said by her.
How can you explain that kinda feel that even in the company
of your friends you felt as though you are being left out in the cold?

Most importantly, she doesnt make him tick with excitement
when she enter the room. Not that she is unattractive. In fact,
she is pretty, dresses well, live up to all occasions. Many envy Chan
but he feel no spark or yearning , just an acknowledgement that
she is around.

Can this kinda relationship survive?... If now is not getting
better, i doubt it will change if settle down as husband and wife
later.

Chan says that he is thinking of a breakup soon, is that a
good decision or not?

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